Busting, is H going to be there for Christmas, with your SIL and BIL? I know how you feel. I’m going thought the same right now. I dread to see H and don’t want to pretend to be a happy family. Maybe this trip will show you if you want to continue this tradition or create a new one next year. Or, maybe by next year you will give a d@mn about H. Just enjoy your time with the family and try not to pay attention to H’s antics.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state