Court order is for both, it's just the bear minimum we need to follow. Which she consistently under follows. I just made a PDF and I will send her so that it is there for review. I will need to start documenting other wise she keeps walking Don't know what her problem is but she likes to spike me for a fight. Or may be I am just bring defensive or we both are. I am just hoping this time will pass and we just move on with our lives, I just want to fast forward my life like this about 5 years. Hoping I will be married to some one else and her too and we just get along well and are adjusted to this divorse and bitterness. May be that is my vision of a better future.


M - 39W- 38
M - 4 yr,Date-4 mths
Son - 2 yr day care
S - 9/12
Divorced- 10/10/13
Visits with son other week
Working on myself & son,co-parent,change,assertive,alpha/beta, entrepeurneur,care,heal,centered