I understand exactly what you are saying. And it makes perfect sense. And I need to start with the consequences. Which is why I was saying I wanted her to start paying mortgage and bills.

I really cant afford to do much more at this point. Its an unfortunate reality frown

My new businss venture is on the verge of being profitable and then I can have breathing room but right now I rwally need her financial contributions for once.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017