Final phase of losing wife?

[kenva]

An update and looking for some input. A few days ago my attorney called and said wife's attorney wanted to know where we were on the separation agreement. Which my attorney told them to write one up. Her attorney said we are using the original one which I dismissed a long time ago. Leaving it up to w to draw up another one since that we have been talking and what we talked and what she originally sent are different. So we are speaking on occasion about this end! I was going to bring it up sat mornin but just got an email from w wanting to discuss Xmas. She asked if it was ok to take our s to her parents Xmas eve and we can discuss if this is something I want to be a part of as she wants us to get along. And on Xmas mornin our s wants her family to come over like we have been doing for years. So!! Do I lie low in this legal stuff and concentrate on Xmas since I was surprised that she even considered me a part of Xmas eve? Last year I went but drove separate , advice from DB coach. I do have an appointment to talk w coach next week.