Your right positive., thanks for all your words of encouragement.
You know Im actually feeling good today, Upbeat and happy. Im going to take my steps/character modifications and my W actions as Positives. She is opening up to me alot and wants to tell me about things in her day. She also voicing her frustration to me about the boys behavior and states (I AM SO OVER IT) I told her we will work on it. Im going to talk to her more about tonight and use the Think, Feel, Want technique, See below
So this weekend, Im working out after work, then going out with my good buddy Travis for awhile.
Saturday I'll be hanging out with my Son all day/evening. Probably workout again, and taking him to dinner/movie. (W is working, and said she has plans Saturday night, "after I told her I had plans Friday")
Sunday, going to church and that is as far as I have planned for now.
My counselor told me these 3 things I should be asking my W and I want to share with everyone because I feel they will work in any relationship. Here they are and you dont have to use them in order or even together. 1. Think (what do think about the ??? or Tell me what you think about ???) 2. Feel (how did it make you feel or How does that make you feel) 3. Want (Is there anything you want from me or Is there anything I can do)
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14