Sorting it All Out

[reachingHigher]

This is a very positive development with your H.

Yes, I thoughts so too, Bright. It was great to hear him say he wanted to move along and farther in our R and how he wanted to do it (doing things together)

Thank you for the very uplifting post

I think it sounds like you both received some clarity about how the other person feels--especially you RH. I'm happy for you.

We did and it was such a positive convo. Thanks, Heather

job and uRw, I will enjoy getting a chance to shine tomorrow at the party.

H and I talked a bit about it on the way home from the show last night. He said again how each of the girls want to come to a party and be the prettiest one there and are insanely jealous of any one else.

I need to go to a party and be the best me I can be. I don't have any illusions about my prettiness or not-prettiness. My goal is to enjoy people and have a great time!

So we talked about some of the different girls and interests they may have and how I can reach them in convo's. H was very honest again and said he has been purposely avoiding Cookout Girl as she has become very unattractive as a friend and very negative. She has lots of issues. So fascinating how these friendships play out in the long run!

H is also very in tune with me as to what we will bring to the party -- separately and together. We seem to be humming the same note now.

The Christmas show last night was excellent! The couple we went with also enjoyed it immensely! We had such a nice time with them! The four of us had a picture taken together with Santa and Frosty and it came out really, really well. so they bought themselves and us one of the 8x10 pics. I thought that was so sweet!

We made some loose plans for the future for activities together with them.

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So...these are happy notes going into the weekend.

Thank you again for the constructive and supportive comments!