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Some say stay dark as a possible with hope of the WAS getting to miss you. Others say peek out occassionally to not let the WAS forget about you.


I always wonder why a man would want a woman who could "forget" him so easily after she was M to him. If you have to remind her ever so often.....why would you?

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But with her initiating so little it simply crossed my mind to maybe try something to invoke more


Again.....why would you want to, if she doesn't?

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....Now though I am glad I did not.


Wheee, me too! smile


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!