Every WAS is in some kind of affair, so that's really no surprise. It can be a PA, EA or even IA (imaginary affair with the perfect make-believe OP that is just out there waiting to be found).
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She is telling our friends she is not coming back here.
WAS's always speak in absolutes. "I'll never go back." "There's no hope for us." "It's definitely over." Many M's have reconciled even after these words (and worse) were spoken.
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Some pulled away from me. Others got closer. Quite a few contacted me to ask what's going on.
DO NOT get friends (or relatives) involved. I can't stress this enough. Friends meddle, and the WAS will ALWAYS perceive it as the LBS "rallying the troops" against them. Just tell your friends the two of you are having some difficulties and that you both need time and space to think about things, and ask them not to intervene.
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She isn't acting anything like herself.
That's a standard requirement for membership in the WAS club.
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I feel there is no choice or chance for us.
Oh yes, there's absolutely a chance. Read DR ASAP.
