It is very common for an unfaithful partner to have a lack of trust with their reconciled spouse over all the same guilty acts that they participated in themselves. It's frustrating, but you just have to grin and bear it. I know a woman whose H had an A. He never became a WAS, but after the A was exposed and despite the fact that she remained faithful throughout, he started constantly accusing her of the very things he had done. Incredibly, he even wanted her to get tested for STD's before he would have sex with her again, and she did it (I can't tell you how wide open my mouth was when I heard that). Did he get tested too? Nooooooooo. I don't know if he'll ever realize what an angel he is married to, the woman is incredible.
