Weeelll, DB says do what works but that sounds like a lot of pressure and pursuit.

Definitely not no contact.

You have a lot of power in this situation, just don't give it away with game playing.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss