She has the opportunity of having an amazing, loving marriage with me, I am a good person. Why she would choose separation & court action over that baffles me. I am would love to understand her reasons.
I think most LBSs think this way. But honestly, do you want to know her reasons? Do you think there is any chance you would agree with them? She obviously doesn't see the opportunity of having an amazing, loving marriage with you. She sees something else that makes separation preferable. It $ucks, but there is nothing you can do about it. You can't argue with her - words are not going to talk her out of this. So stop trying to figure out what she is thinking, and just work on you.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
