I might be missing something, but your stance on the house probably makes her feel completely trapped financially.
Yes this is probably true S4tk, but the point is she has chosen to be in that situation, it was her decision to leave & it is her decision not to come back & live in the house with me.
She has the opportunity of having an amazing, loving marriage with me, I am a good person. Why she would choose separation & court action over that baffles me. I am would love to understand her reasons.
Me: 34, Wife: 34 Son: 2 Married: 8, Together: 14 Wife moved out 8/25/2013 Divorce papers received 01/10/2014