Well for me, it might not make things better, but it may make things seem more reasonable and therefore more understandable. If tomorrow a WAS said, "I am not happy". I would think to myself, well, THAT makes sense. I would understand that. I would get that. For the WAS to say they are happy, when they left their home, their family, their security, interrupted and changed the life of their children, and ended a long term relationship, that just doesn't make sense to me.
