Court tomorrow. Very nervous. She is out for blood. Lots of $ at stake. This has been crazy litigious. Basically I collapsed after her affair and lost my job through the trauma and is after my severance and spousal support. We make about the same money...this is just not right. She gets a free BMW out of it, you'd think that would be enough. It will be very contentious tomorrow but I cAnnot accept the fact she deserves a better lifestyle than I do. She feels she should be able to maintain her previous lifestyle while I scrape by...if that. I would need to sell my house. She lost the custody battle 6 months ago so now she must feel she needs to win. It is always about money for her and being ahead. Is equity not good enough? That's all I want. Her lawyer is using all the same tactics of attack and accusations. Brutal. Didn't work for them last time so fingers crossed. Nervous as hell. Don't even want to see ex. She is not a good person right now. Wtf happened to her? She pretended happy marriage, gets caught cheating and then just attacks and makes me evil. Then expects the moon. Sense of entitlement is bizarre. Family Law permits these abuses.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
