For the past week or more, my W has made far less contact and sparsely communicated.
Tuesday I chose to send her a picture of the cat sleeping. It seemed like a safe topic and she cares for the cat. She chatted about the cat for a short while.
Wednesday there was a holiday party at work. I prepared a gluten free mac and cheese. Cooking is a 180 for me and I was concerned there wouldn't be anything she could eat. I saw her take a helping, but she said nothing to me and did not interact with me during the party. After eating, I just went back to work. She apparently though I was upset and came to my office. She said we didn't usually interact at the holiday party and she tried some of the mac and cheese. I told her I wasn't upset and that I understood she wanted to spend time with some of her friends. We had some work related discussions and a few work related emails later that day.
Today, I did not engage her unless it was work related. She did stop by my office briefly to let me know she had bought a new flavored creamer. I guess that's something. I just feel like we were further than this a few short weeks ago. Has the fog returned? Has something changed and I am the last to know?
