Suckerpunch (the process)

[planet]

I know this is a often asked question that doesn't really matter but I would like to put in my thoughts on this.

Each time I read that the WAS is in a 'fog' or is 'confused', I feel that this places the LBS in the wrong frame of mind. All this ever does is to help soothe the LBS's ego.
Those statements diminishes the WAS's other actual feelings. They, I believe also felt 'free' from their M and if there is an OP, then they feel 'loved'. That is a step up. These feelings are very real.

I think LBS needs to acknowledge this as well.