-no nagging/reminders/checking up on him to see if he is ready/organized about things -positive mindset, putting a stop to the negative thought patterns -keep things light -no pressuring/requesting status updates, etc. -STFU! -tell him when something is bothering me, bring it up nicely at a good time and tell him how I feel and why something is important to me! -let him have some free time rather than expecting him to be around/help all the time, give him some space -make the most of our time together, have fun!! -try some new, exciting things together -do some of his LL 'Acts of Service', let him have rest if needed, fold his laundry, bring coffee, buy him an unexpected treat once in a while -try not to overanalyze things and our situation!!!!! -be grateful for what I have and try not to rush things
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
