Wife wants Divorce, I do Not

[Cadet]

I'm not contacting her. I feel there is no choice or chance for us.

There can always be HOPE, but what you are thinking and feeling is completly natural.

Things get worse before they get better.

This is not going to work on YOUR time schedule.

That is why you need to let go and work on yourself.

Re-read this thread again, all you need to know is in here it just does not make sense to you right now.