Negril, It's quite normal not to hear for your spouse for month's on end. I didn't have children either and two of my friends who were former posters here didn't either and they were in the same boat.
I think the fact that we don't have children gives them more time to think and process their issues, etc., w/o the interruptions of children, visitation and custody and support issues.
If you are having some text communication w/her, that's great. Just keep your texts simple and straight forward. If you don't hear from her, don't worry...she's in a dark place and needs the space and time to heal herself. She will contact you when she needs you or something from you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
