Hi M - I am not letting H's comment get to me too much. I was just more upset with myself for my snappy remark. I know that I could have handled the situation better. H seemed off last night. I did not ask what was wrong and figured I would just let it be and start fresh today.
I have told H several times that he has been doing a fantastic job with the kids and that I am proud of him for the changes he has made. I tell him how excited the kids are to do things with him. When H and I talked right after Thanksgiving, we talked for a while about how we are both better parents now. I know that I have not been really good with the compliments in the past, so I am going to continue to try and get better