A good lesson for me yesterday.

Almost worked myself up into a migraine worrying about XH showing up with OW at D17's final school speech night.

When I got there, I tried not to look for our/her car, and when i went into the auditorium, I kept my eyes focused on my own space and didn't scan the room.

Didn't see them and managed to focus on the event.

Supper in the school cafe for final year parents and girls at the end of the night - and it became apparent that XH was not there.

So, all that worry for naught.
And no use for my 'how very dare you' speech. Thank goodness.

Saved from myself.

Ended up having a great time.
Even took lots of photos of the girls all playing around afterwards.
Creating great memories.