Accepting the Confusion - It is what it is Part 5

[tigerlily78]

Angela, I think it's probably really normal and understandable that you are afraid of being hurt again... but think of it this way. If you DON'T open yourself up to really trying again with your H, aren't you possibly just hurting yourself and your kids in another way?

Part of the thing that makes "us", the LBS appealing is that we are supposed to be the confident one, we are the one who has hope that things will work out in the end, we are the one guiding the WAS back toward home. Give yourself the gift of PMA. He is making an effort. That's what you wanted. You know it's not going to be easy, but you DO want to give your R the best chance you can at regrowth, right?

Don't let "what might happen" keep you from being able to accept and appreciate the things he IS doing right now. Don't let doubt and fear drown out your hope.