labug-You are so good with your responses. You know just what to say to keep things civil and put the responsibility back on them without being offensive.

3 and labug-What did your H anger phase look like and how long did it last? Did he blame you for everything, too?

My H anger seems to never end. I'm getting so worn out listening to what a horrible everything I've been for the last 15 years. blah blah

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014