Just hung up with S10 who told me that he and XW1 has been visiting W this evening!
While I believe this to be good for the children it also seems like W is getting her cake elsewhere! I don't know how I feel about this in regards of the future with or without R but it seems like I will just have to come to terms with the fact that the two of them are tuning in.

What a mess all of this is for friends, family and so on. Her family is backing her up as they should but everybody else is still close with both of us.

Me:44 W:43
D7, D5 (S11 from other R)

T: 8y - not M
ILYB: 8. Mar 2013
W moved: 1. Aug 2013
LRT: 20. Aug 2013
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