CC, If you could think of a way to not ask him directly, you might get a more honest answer. I know it's difficult and you would like to know what's going on, but sometimes, direct questions throw them thru a loop.
Good luck!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
