Limbo is the new normal

[NeedingMore]

Slow,

I feel the same way about being a better girlfriend and person in general. Sometimes I think back to such a short time ago when I was pressuring him and wish I would have done better all along. Then part of me thinks that I wish he could just talk to me about everything that has happened. Sometimes I feel that letting things go is like avoiding the elephant in the room. How do you decide when to talk about important issues? I feel like I can't talk to my BF about my feelings at all. That is what I have a hard time dealing with. Like as long as I act like everything is OK and his actions aren't hurtful, we are good. And we are in a holding pattern that is torture. I also need that crystal ball...just for some relief of my mind.

I can relate to the needs of my kids being pitted against. My BF doesn't have any kids of his own...and he loves my kids but doesn't seem interested in them beyond a phone call here and there. I feel super guilty for how much time I spend worrying about what will happen with my BF and how it takes me away emotionally from focusing on them. They always come first...

If your H moved home how would you feel about moving?