3- I've spent the last couple of days catching up on all of your posts. Whew!! Some people on these boards have such a way with words and you are one of them!

You are an inspiring, strong woman. I get so angry at your H reading all the posts. Why doesn't he get it??!!

We are all beautiful, strong, patient women that have humbly come to the table and been willing to look inwardly and make changes to save our families and have happy relationships. I guess by the time we do this, they are already 'done'.

The fog of MLC/WAS is so hard to understand. My H used to be such a black/white person. Had very logical answers. Now, he's just a blob that exists to drink alcohol and be miserable. My heart aches for the innocent kids in these situations. My kids hurt and cry so often. It's not fair. I wish I could shield them from the hurt.

I look forward to your posts and inspiration

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014