Adinva and Mrbond, I see your point now as I read your comments. That was a passve agessive way of responding.

Could you give me an example of a beyer response? How could I have uaed the situation to set a boundary?

Willbwell, yes I probably suffer from some depression. I'm under a lot of stress with my business which I founded 12 years ago but that n the last three years has not been performing so well.

I was on wellbutrin which was good but I decided I didn't want to be numb. I should probably talk to my dr about starting some again.

Thank you guys! Appreciate all your help

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017