I think because by leaving she has broken the patterns that were happening and made me realise how she was suffering in the marriage. She wasn't able to communicate that to me in words. Also so she knows I don't blame her or think she is bad for what she has done but that I don't agree that she should leave permanently & give up on the marriage.
Wonka, I also think that I should point out my wife is living with our son at her parents house and I am living in our house on my own, she wants me to move out so her and my son can move in.
Me: 34, Wife: 34 Son: 2 Married: 8, Together: 14 Wife moved out 8/25/2013 Divorce papers received 01/10/2014
