Yes, his saying he wants help and actually doing the work are very different. I'm not saying don't believe him but rather take it a day at a time.

Probably the worst move you could make is to jump back into "marriage mode."

Support hi like you would a really close friend.

It is scary, tho. I get that, so that usually means slow down.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss