I Know we're not supposed to assume what our spouses are thinking or feeling. I just have this feeling that H is going to leave. He looks absolutely miserable. I know he hasn't brushed his teeth in over a week...gross (I'm a dental hygienist :))

His hygiene and motivation are nearly nonexistent. If he comes to me and tells me he's leaving, I want to be prepared with the correct response. What do I say/do if he wants to leave?

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014