You did something sweet for W even though you are not in the wrong and W eventually apologized for being difficult. Win-Win for everybody. That's pure DB.
It sounds like JonF may have discovered her Love Language.
Jon, have you read The Five Love Languages? If not, I suggest you add that to your list behind the DB books.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012