25, some of us come to these board shattered and broken, myself included. While it's true that I first thought my xh was in a MLC I now know that a lot more contributed to his breakdown which just happened to be at midlife. It took many months of counseling and recovery to understand the insidious abuse I suffered for over two decades. And, yes 25, it did seem sudden. You clearly have never suffered psychology abuse or are well versed in it or you wouldn't have been so cruel.

MLC is a generic term to me now. I don't understand why you thought it was necessary to come to my thread, write about me as if I wasn't participating, and show other posters where you feel I continue to be delusional. What was your point?