I agree with CC. He really needs to start taking care of himself if that is what he really wants. Just because he hates making those kinds of calls is no excuse to have you do it. We all have stuff we don't like to do. Make him grow up tiger!!!
I'm glad he is paying more attention to your S.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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