Feel like falling down

[willbwell]

Friends, I need advice....
S20 is home from college.H said he wants to tell boys about D.
This is what I have been fearing.

I get no say. I just have to go along.
My children are hurting.

Am I supposed to say nothing to H?

I need help here.

Can you guys who have had the D convo with the kids give feedback??

This is why I feel I am running out of time.
Telling the kids makes it real.