BA, Enjoy your holiday 'gifts' and I'm hoping one of them turns out to be a golfer for you! It sounds like you have quite the selection. I know how tedious this process is, but I'm here to tell you that, with effort and time, it does work.
Betsey, Always a story and an adventure with you. You are truly amazing and no matter what life hands you figure out how to stay positive and keep moving forward. Aren't we glad it's finally getting warmer?! I haven't looked ahead to next week and your last comments are making me nervous! I don't mind snow, but it's been way too cold this past week. Let's get together for something over the holidays....miss you! xo
Life with the new and improved Dave is everything I hoped for and more. He is kind, caring, loving, spiritual...etc. The only fault (thus far) is his wanting more of my time than I am willing to give. He's very patient and understands my need to maintain balance. I messed that up in my marriage and I won't do that again. He's a 'relationship guy' and likes to do everything with his partner. Well, I call that a bit co-dependent and am not willing to travel that road. He is good about understanding and I think setting some boundaries early on is a way to maintain that balance. He calls me "wise" and says all kinds of things that I've been waiting to hear. AND, he follows it up with actions!
So, I would tell everyone that there is a healthy and happy new relationship out there for you if that is what you desire. Become very clear about what you are looking for and then expect it to show up! It will....
Happy Holidays!!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
