Is the first year the worst? Does it really get better? When they go from clinging to touch and go, is it just a slow death? Or is it really a growing period?
Yes. But that's not the same as the end of the story.
For me? Commitment, integrity, Love (of self and my ex). Those were the things that kept me going. And still do, only in a different direction now. Can't control another person or a situation - I've learned to let go of the fear that drives the desire to control. I've grown. I've learned. I still am.
I may have grown and I may be different, but those are still things that are core to who I am.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
