Prior to the announcement of the visit our interactions were very good. We had that sentimental moment at D3 school.

Did I handle it ok? Not sure if I should have not been ok with her going. I mean, I'm no okay with it of course, but I'm treating her like our marriage is over. Since it is.

Not an open marriage situatuon. I'm shooting for roommates kind of vibe. I want her to worry in times like this when things are not smooth for her.

Mrbond do you have any advice or critique? I think I did well enough right?

Going out soon. Should be fun. Going to hang with some friends at a pool hall.


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017