You are exactly right. The more life I get lately the more interested she becomes in me. Last night when she came home from work she needed help moving some boxes in from her car. Over the past few weeks she has been moving all of her "important" stuff (paperwork, pictures etc) to her grandparents basement to keep it away from me. She decided yesterday that she wanted to move it all back. "This is my home and my stuff belongs here" is what she said.
Today I didn't hear from her until she called me on my way home from work. She invited me to her fathers house for dinner. I declined, said I'm just going to go home and relax. When she arrived home from dinner I wasn't there, I had gone out to do a few errands.
She also told me tonight that she got a baby sitter for Saturday so her and I could go to the movies since we haven't been out together in a long time. I told her that sounds great.
I am moving forward with working and worrying about myself. Even though part of me still wants to try to talk to her about the M I will not do so. No matter how much it is driving me nuts not knowing what's going on in her mind
Me 37 W 33 son 3 T 4 years M 1.5 years BD 11/14 - W wants a divorce 11/17-current W wants a separation currently living together
"The slightest bit of light, and I can see you clear" -Eddie Vedder