2Times, there are some similarities in our stitches. My H also had a life of a single man when he traveled for business. And he was also financially dependent on me for a number of years. We also have a business together, but it nothing like yours, it is just a shield for self-employment. We still have to maintain the books and accounts jointly. I remember these times when H would call me to chat and I felt that he was lonely. It all stopped after the BD. He always was an outgoing type, so he always was making friends (including the female once) everywhere he went, and he always liked this life.

You are lucky that your H has not declared that your R is completely over. He is still trying to figure out what he wants. It looks like he still wants to be connected to you. I know how you feel about the anniversary. My is right before the New Years, but I’m not expecting anything. There was nothing last year too, since my H told me he was done and moving on.

Thanks for stopping by my thread. I hope you will make the most of these 5 days when your H is home.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state