I think it's more about not feeling vulnerable and not telling me anything personal. She put walls up a long time ago, it seems impenetrable, I don't think any bricks have come down.
I also guess she is not used to hearing anything like that from me, so probably thinks there is a motive. I was being genuine. I asked her to include my sister who just went through a breakup and my grandmother who is not doing well. That's all I was looking for I guess. Kinda surprised at the alien reaction I got.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14