Heather, I'm basing my last posting on what you posted:
"I'm sad. Nothing is happening, no big MLC surprises or anything. Maybe that's it. Nothing is happening. I had an ok day."
Are you sad because you are unhappy w/life the way it has been going or are you sad because your h hasn't contacted you recently?
Nothing is happening, no big MLC surprises or anything. Where you expecting something to happen? Where you expecting him to text you?
My interpretation of your statements is that you were expecting something to happen, maybe a text or some type of missive from him. Some type of action. When you didn't get anything, were you sad from no action or texts from him? You sounded disappointed.
This is where I see addiction because you have "expected" him to text and yes, you've had some texts from him over the last week or so and now that he's dropped off into a quiet place, you may be sad/disappointed because there is no communication from him.
If I am interpreting your statements incorrectly, then I apologize, but you sound like you are disappointed that you've had no action from his side of the court.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
