Reaching out for support and advice!!

[bluesgal]

MrB, I am really bad about this. Yes, I've read both books, but I do still engage in defending myself....which is engaging in the arguments. Not always, but almost always. Can you see a big 180 that's needed?

I usually start out validating, then things spiral from there. I know I need to walk away more often. It's so hard when he is rewriting history and making decisions that hurt our family. There are days when I just want to sock it to him!!