Thank you TL for your post. You are very wise and insightful and often I dont know how to respond to you because you seem to have an insight into things already :-)
I hope H does show up too. FWIW, I feel like he is spending time with OW right now because we have not had phone calls to the kids, or texts about calling them.... for two days. Like he is paying his dues to OW and has to remain silent so that he can come and see D6 show.
At this point in time, I dont care. If he comes, that is all that matters right now.
This situation gives us the opportunity to become appreciative for the things we would have taken for granted . This is what I need to remember.. to be appreciative.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home