WBW I understand what you are saying. Dont forget, our responses are what we chose them to be. We are kind because we want to be kind, in spite of what we are being given. Because that is who WE are. Not because of anyone else.
I hope your D's performance goes well! My D is the narrator so she is excited but also concerned that she 'wont be seen a lot on the stage..' lol
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home