I am glad your birthday turned out nice and he made the effort to make it about YOU.
I know you just want to nudge him toward the emotional reconnection and more physical stuff... but he may just still be in that state where he doesn't think he deserves any of it. BF could also be right about the Withdrawal phase.
Just remember, that it isn't because you aren't sexy and wonderful... it is because he can't allow himself to be with someone sexy and wonderful just yet. He isn't ready.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."
