Busting, sounds like you have a fun and busy weekend planned. I like that you have found a way to be more grateful and appreciative of the positive moments in your life. I really do think that is what separates us from the MLCer and gives us the strength to walk through this journey, that even with all the crap that is happening, we don't stay mired in it... we find the ability to appreciate the good, happiness really is about having the mindset to appreciate all the positives and simple pleasures.

I hope your H will show up to D's performance, but even if he doesn't remember in that moment you are there to support and enjoy your daughter. Don't let his bad decisions keep you from being able to live in the joy of the moment for yourself and your daughter.


me-35
WAS-37
T-16 1/2
Son-14 (HF Aspergers)
BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013
"Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."