She's no longer your wife....some people even call the WAS an alien because their actions simply do not line up with the person they used to be. For some its an extreme difference for others it may not be.

What was your reason behind asking how you could best pray for her?

In this situation she may have twisted it in her mind as you saying something is wrong with her and she needs prayer. Or if its something that shes not use to hearing from you she may have taken it as you having some sort of motive....also she would need to be vulnerable to honestly share with you what she feels she needs prayer on....and she may not feel comfortable doing so with you at this time.

I pray for my H nightly......I'm sure he falls asleep with out even thinking of me.


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope