Hi T2, What is your concern about straight up informing W what s3 told you? Is it fear of her reaction? If so, why?

I've come to the conclusion quite a while ago that I'm not pussy footing around my W. You're ahead of me in MLCland, so I don't think you should be either.

You've been a wonderful H to your W through all this. She sees this and is still there. Being assertive and confident is attractive.

I apologize if I'm off base on how I read your dilemma.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl