just a couple of tips gained through experience....
I use a site called "Credit Karma" to help me track credit progress- im up over 100 points in 7-8 mths
Have you read the sticky "Sandi's rules"- please refer to it often, it will help you
Stop snooping. If you continue it will only hurt you more and more
Get that job and save that $$$- none for him
Go out with your friends on his Birthday
act "as if" its over and start moving on- he has alot of work he needs to do. In the meantime focus 100% on you and your daughter- The only 2 people that matter right now.
if these steps feel like they are the complete opposite of what YOU think you "should be doing"....your doing it right.
Keep posting
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
